I’m Being Harassed Online – What Are My Options?

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Online harassment can feel invisible to others, but its impact is anything but small. If you’re being harassed digitally in the Seattle area—especially by an ex-partner or someone with whom you’ve had a close relationship—you might be feeling overwhelmed, scared, or unsure about what to do next. You are not alone, and you do have legal protections. Washington law treats online harassment seriously, particularly in cases involving domestic violence.

This guide by our Seattle domestic violence attorney explains what online harassment looks like under Washington law, steps you can take to protect yourself, and how Jennifer Horwitz Law can help.

Understanding Online Harassment in Washington

In Washington State, online harassment includes a broad set of behaviors. Harassment doesn’t need to happen in person to be considered criminal. Under RCW 9A.46.020, harassment can involve threats meant to intimidate, scare, or control someone—even through a screen.

Similarly, RCW 9.90.120 outlines restrictions surrounding cyberstalking and electronic threats. While this law has undergone some updates, it still makes it illegal to send messages repeatedly with the intent to harass, intimidate, or torment a person.

Online harassment may involve:

  • Repeated messaging via text, email, or social media
  • Threats of harm or threats that cause fear
  • Tracking or surveillance using apps, GPS, or social platforms
  • Posting or sharing personal information (also known as doxxing)

It’s important to know that even if the harassment is “only” happening online, it may still qualify as illegal and is taken seriously under state law.

Many people experience online harassment as part of an abusive relationship. In these cases, digital channels become tools for control and intimidation. This could include things like sending threatening messages at all hours, controlling your online access, tracking your location through apps, or using shared accounts to monitor your communication.

Washington’s Domestic Violence Prevention Act protects individuals from this kind of behavior. If the person harassing you is a former or current partner, or a family or household member, you might be eligible for a Domestic Violence Protection Order (DVPO) under RCW 7.105. These orders are designed not just to stop in-person abuse—but also to prevent harassment by phone, text, email, or social media.

Steps You Can Take Right Now to Protect Yourself

If you’re experiencing online harassment, taking action as soon as you feel safe to do so is important. You have a right to protect your peace and privacy.

Here are several things you can do immediately:

  • Stop responding to the harassing messages or communications.
  • Take screenshots of texts, social media posts, emails, or other content. Be sure to include timestamps.
  • Make a safety plan. If the behavior escalates or you feel unsafe, call 911.
  • File a police report, especially if threats are involved. In Seattle, you can report non-emergency incidents online through the Seattle Police Department’s website.

You can also change your passwords, set up two-factor authentication, and review privacy settings on all your accounts. Small changes can go a long way toward keeping your information secure.

Washington law offers both civil and criminal ways to fight back against online harassment.

Civil Legal Options

You may be eligible to file:

  • A Domestic Violence Protection Order (DVPO) – if your harasser is someone you have a close or past personal relationship with (partner, spouse, family member), this order can block them from contacting you digitally or in person.
  • An Anti-Harassment Protection Order – if the harasser is not a domestic partner or relative but is still acting threateningly, you can seek this type of protection.

In King County, you can start the filing process online through the Protection Orders Office.

These legal orders can:

  • Prohibit the person from contacting you in any form
  • Force them to stay away from your home, work, or school
  • Restrict communication through mutual friends or social platforms

Superior and district courts in Washington State have jurisdiction over civil domestic violence protection order proceedings. These orders include, sexual assault, stalking, and antiharassment protection order proceedings.

Criminal Legal Options

In some cases, harassment is criminal. Police and prosecutors may press charges for:

  • Cyberstalking
  • Threats or harassment causing fear
  • Violating a protection order

Law enforcement in Seattle and King County are trained to recognize online harassment, especially when part of a cycle of domestic violence. Patterns of messages, threatening language, and repeated contact can all be legally significant.

You don’t have to face the justice system alone. Having legal support can make a huge difference in how effectively your situation is handled.

How Jennifer Horwitz Law Supports Victims of Online Abuse

At Jennifer Horwitz Law, we understand the emotional and legal aspects of abuse—especially when it comes through screens and wires. With over two decades of experience in domestic violence and victim advocacy, Jennifer works closely with clients to protect their rights and safety.

Here’s how our firm can help:

  • Assist with filing for a DVPO or Anti-Harassment Order in King County courts
  • Guide you through documenting online abuse effectively
  • Represent you in court during hearings
  • Communicate directly with law enforcement or prosecutors when needed

We know that reaching out can be hard. Everything we do is grounded in trust, respect, and making sure you feel heard and safe.

Helpful Resources for Victims in Seattle and Washington State

You don’t have to go through this alone. In addition to legal help, there are community resources that can support you:

Nearly one in four people have experienced online harassment. Domestic violence continues to be a serious problem. Numerous resources are available, including legal counsel from experienced Seattle domestic violence lawyers. 

Next Steps: Get the Protection You Deserve

If you’re facing online harassment in Seattle or King County, you deserve safety—on and offline. Whether the harassment is a continuation of an abusive relationship or is coming from someone you once trusted, the law is on your side. Jennifer Horwitz Law is here to support you every step of the way.

To get started, contact Jennifer today for a confidential consultation with our Seattle domestic violence lawyer. Learn what legal steps can help you reclaim your safety and peace of mind.